Let's be honest and not pretend. If you can't do that,
pretend less. Let's try to understand each other, each others weaknesses, each
others faults and each others mistakes. Let's not judge. If you can't do that,
judge less. When you see a person, a person who is close to you or a stranger,
ask yourself what's actually there. What is there behind the facade? Why is she or he like that? What has
he or she gone through? Is that person hurt, is that person loved enough, is
that person being misunderstood? Show compassion, it's in you. Hidden
somewhere, try to find it. Show that compassion to that person. Show that you
understand that life can be hard sometimes and we all fight different fights
inside us. Don's say it if you can't say it or if you can't find the right
words. Show it...and feel it.
Let's be grateful. Grateful for things and people we still hold beside us. There's no
guarantee they will be here forever. There's no guarantee they'll be here
tomorrow. Thank each day for your life. Thank for your health even if you're
not completely healthy at that moment, thank for it anyways. Thank for the love
you receive and for the love you're able to give. If you cannot give love,
start loving yourself, open your heart and realise the love within you. It's
there, I promise, I see it! Thank people who loved you one day and hurt you the
other day. Thank for the growth within you and for the strength to fight the
pain they've caused you. Thank for everything! Because »everything« made you the
person you are today! Are you proud of you?
Let's be happy. If you can't do that, be less sad. If you
can't do that, start to enjoy in your sadness. Give yourself as much time as you need to
recover. Smile more often, even if it's fake - your brain will know what to do! Everyday
thank for 10 things that make you happy. You'll see, you'll notice you have
more than you think. Be happy with who you are and what you do. If you aren't,
improve yourself. Focus on YOU only! NOBODY can make you as happy as you can!
Give yourself love you want from others. Give yourself appreciation you want
from others. And give yourself all that you can give, and they who are around
you, will give you everything they've got.
Let's be more giving. If you can't do that, be less selfish.
When you give yourself love, appreciation and everything you can give, so the
others will give you the same, don't forget to give them that too. Give them
more if you can. It's in you. You posses everything you need in order to give. If you like to bake, give people in need your desserts. If you like to
sing or play music, spoil ears of the ones who need music. If you an artist, bring
a piece of art in someones home, someone who's lonely. Tell a joke to someone
who needs a smile on their face. We all have gifts inside us, let's embrace
them, show them to the world and give them to each other!
Let's be braver. If you can't do that, fear less. WE ALL HAVE FEARS. But the greatest out of all, is fear of
each other. Fear won't let us be who we truly are, because we are so afraid,
what the world will think of us. Free your mind. And do your own thing. Because
when you will show your uniqueness, others will find it in themselves too. They
will see there's nothing to be afraid of if you are who you are. Because we are
all a lil strange, we are all a lil crazy, we all embarrass ourselves sometimes,
we all make stupid mistakes and we all make wrong decisions sometimes! But
let's not be afraid to admit that. Let's be more honest...oh we've been there!
We've all been hurt. We all had our hearts broken. Deeply
broken. We've all been misunderstood.
We've all lost trust of someone. We've all been lied to. But let's not forget!
We hurt other people AS WELL. We broke other heart(s) AS WELL, deeply broke! We
didn't show understanding to some people, AS WELL. Somebody lost trust in us,
AS WELL. We all lied to someone at certain point, AS WELL. So understand, if
you want to be understood. Appreciate, and you'll be appreciated. Love and
you'll be loved back. Forgive, and you'll be forgiven. Help and people will help
you. Live life and life will give you so much living, that you've never imagined.
It's not because of other people. It's because of YOU only!
Be more responsible and stop blaming everything and everyone around you for
your problems. Believe me, THEY have their own problems, they don't have time
to cause you problems. And NO, they don't wake up and have an evil plan to make
your life miserable. You make your life miserable. Society and the world HAVE
NOTHING to do with it. Be more adaptable! You can't change circumstances, ignore
and ADAPT. Adapt, fight and believe!
And don't forget your influence on other people. Remember
how many people daily affect your life. In bad and in good way. Well, now,
imagine how many lives, how many people daily YOU affect! DON'T FORGET - You raise people. Raise them
good...and than love what you've raised!
Happy life...or shall I say happy 2013!
Mayita
